Monday 1 March 2010

Supergirlfriend

She is lovely and amazing. She’s more than a girlfriend. She takes care of you like a mother, she respects you like she’s your younger sister, she sits with you on the couch on weekends to watch ball games like your best buddy, she will be your nurse when you don’t feel well, she’s your chef in the kitchen, she’s the sun you’ll wake up to in the morning and she’s the lullabye that you’ll sleep into the night.

She can simply be your everything. And to her, it’s just her way of loving you. You wouldn’t really see that she’s exerting too much effort because she appears all too natural in her actions and in her words. Any man who could win her heart is really blessed. Not lucky, but blessed.

She understands why you cancelled your date and she doesn’t nag. You will try to explain to her why it happened and she will just say that it’s all okay and she will give you a big hug. She won’t argue with you when she sees you’re mad but she waits for you to cool down to talk things out. She knows what you need even before you ask for it and she doesn’t forget important things that has to do with you.

She doesn’t drag you to the shopping mall to let you wait while she tries on too many dresses and shoes. She knows that those things will bore you but she is so willing to accompany you buy your stuff. She would not want you to be a spendthrift even if you’re earning well. She would not ask you to buy her this and buy her that. She cares about your hard work and you don’t need to impress her with all the expensive stuff that you buy for her. Let her feel her worth and it’s more than enough.

She gives you time to do your own stuff and be with your buddies. She demands for your time reasonably (but with a girlfriend like her, who would not want to give her all of his time?).

When she submits herself to her man, she remains to be faithful. She makes her man feel he’s the “Man” and no other Romeo’s could ever, ever capture her attention. When she’s yours, she’s all yours. And only your unfaithfulness will change that.

She loves with all of her heart and her soul.

And what is it that she asks for her man to do in return?

Only one thing.

Love her for real.